1. Get a desk calendar and write down every expense you have for a given month. Plan out far as you can, document even cell phone bills, utility bill, any and living expenses.
2. Take an inventory of the extra stuff, like beauty care, fun expenses and on a separate sheet of paper, lay out what you spend down to the dime.
3. If you have existing credit card balances, get out your last 3 months statements and grab a highlighter pen. Next you should use that pen to capture every item recorded that matches the beauty and extra stuff that you documented on that piece of paper separate fro m the calendar, and add it up This total will give you an idea of where you EXTRA cash is going that could be potentially used for the balances that cause your credit problem. That problem could be overspending, late payments and/or unable to acquire new credit because your existing payment history is in-consistent.
4. Now go back to that desk calendar and take a hard look at your bill payment patterns, is there something you could do differently? Perhaps a balance your carrying could be paid off sooner than later. Balances have significant impact on what your payment history says about you. High balances every month signal your credit card issuer that you may have a management problem. Balances are also recorded on your credit report every month including the highest balance for any given month. This balance is factored into your ability to get credit line increases.
5. By getting a true picture of what you are doing with your money on paper, on a calendar and based on what you do from one day to the next, you start to see why you are having the problems that you are faced with. Also, you can decide and determine what you are willing to do to correct the situation. I am a big supporter of sacrificing the wants to get to as place that allows for more freedom. Money problems are camouflaged by habits we think we cannot break, but it's a game-changer when we beat the instinct not to make adjustments.
In conclusion, you have more control than you realize. Managing money starts with every day expenses and prioritizing them. Credit care is in totality what results in our abitity to structure our decisions that affect our credit report history and long-term borrowing power.